Communication is Key: How to Connect with an Alzheimer's Patient

September 21st, 2016 by admin

Caring for a person with dementia can be an emotionally draining process. Whether you are acting as sole caregiver for your loved one or have enlisted the help of an Alzheimers care facility, knowing the best ways to communicate with an Alzheimer's patient can greatly impact both their quality of life and your time with your family member. Because Alzheimer's disease affects communicative abilities and personal identity, you will have to adapt your habits and implement new ones when connecting with your loved one. Here are some tips on how to communicate and connect with Alzheimer's patients more effectively:

• Be patient Patients in need of memory care services are going to need more time to communicate. Family members often have a hard time adjusting to these changes in their loved one, and don't understand why they can no longer communicate the way they used to. Don't interrupt, and try to avoid correcting your loved one. It can be frustrating at times, but those who need dementia care also need to know that they have your support, your understanding, and your time.
• Be clear The best way to communicate with an Alzheimer's patient is to speak slowly and clearly. Patients don't always understand long-winded explanations or too many choices; don't ask too many questions, and use short, simple sentences. If he or she doesn't understand, try phrasing things in a different way or using visual aids to get your point across.
• Be calm Be mindful of your tone when talking to someone with Alzheimer's disease. Make sure that what you are trying to convey matches what you're trying to communicate, and avoid shouting or sharp tones. Patients are naturally prone to stress and anxiety, and your words should not add to the symptoms. There are times when it may be difficult, but try to stay cool and collected when communicating.
• Be a good listener Don't assume that someone with dementia can no longer express what they mean or how they feel; it is vital that Alzheimer's patients feel they are heard and understood. Acknowledge that you understand how they feel, and affirm that you have interpreted their meaning correctly. And don't forget, often body language can speak louder than words.
• Be respectful Do not talk down to an Alzheimer's patient by using condescending language such as "baby talk" or childish words. Encourage others to not do this. Even if a patient has lost his or her ability to communicate verbally, that does not mean he or she no longer understands what is being said. In addition, be careful to not invade personal space, startle them, or exhibit tense body language.

Although Alzheimer's disease is the sixth-leading cause of death in the U.S., that doesn't mean you can't still enjoy quality time with your loved one. Communication is key in keeping connections alive, and by following these tips, you'll be able to talk and listen to your loved one more effectively. If you're interested in exploring your options for memory care centers or Alzheimer's care in our area, please contact us today.

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